Glad that one of my old friend is back...
I would say here that I felt lost when he's starting to put a distance between us sometimes ago...
I felt like losing something...
Losing a shoulder to cry on...
Losing a good friend...
I felt very lost....
Because at that time I was having a difficult time of my life...
And he's not there to help me....
That reminds me of some other words...
From some other 'friend'...
"If anything happened between you and him, don't look for us as we're not going to accept u, not that simple..."
It makes me wonder...
Is that really what a friend should say to a friend...?
Quite shocked to hear that...
Because all my friends (my best friends) never said things like that to me...
They will give me advise...
And if I screwed up..
They will be there for me..
They've taught and shown me that...
A friend won't leave her friends, especially when they're down...
A friend will always tell the truth to her friend, even if it's hurt...
A friend won't let her friend fall...
A friend won't let her friend suffer...
A friend won't let her friend make mistakes...and if her friend did, she'll be there to make things better..
And the most important thing is...
A friend won't leave her friend....or run away from her friend...no matter how hurt she is....
That's the real meaning of friendship to us...
We don't judge our friends....
No matter how hurt we are...we will always stay together...
No matter how big the fight is...we will get back together...
Because we're friends...
And friends should be together..
Always...
Some other words:
There's no such thing as hypocrisy in friendship...
Yes, sometimes we're hurt by our friends...
We don't like what they did...
But, we can't isolate them....
Or pull a face in front of them....
Because they're our friends....
And when the time comes for us to be in their shoes...
We don't want the same thing happened to us..
Rite..?
Disclaimer - This post is dedicated to my real best buddies, tiada kena mengena dengan sesiapa yang lain, especially to those I-hate-You-but-I-have-to-thank-you-for-what-you've-done so called frens.
Thank you.
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Nurul & Zam
dats a long 1 there..
hehehe...like it or not, not everybody are cut out to be our fren..they might juz be other people's best fren..or worst, nobody's fren at all..when dat happen, it's sad..1 sad person indeed.
but, i'm glad for the day i joined u outside the class 11 years ago. im glad for the fact that we already had our big fight b4..twice (we didnt talk 4 almost 3 months?aite?)..hehe..and most of all,im glad we had our chance/share of losing our 1st luv..for when we've been thru all those together, we can finally tell who's our best fren really is..sum1 whose there during the most difficult times of 1's life.
but if i ever never there 4 u when u'r down, forgive me my fren..
ur BFF,
~MarD@pretender@semardiah@semarties
assalamualaikum...
best ayat2 2.oops...lupe nak introduce.haha...nad ni.mmg best ayat2 2.tp pd nad,t'lalu hipokrit,x guna.mmg kene jage ati org keliling kita tp ati kita,sape nak jage?bkn 2 je.kdgkala,bila terasa jauh ati dgn kwn,m'elakkan diri adlh lbh baik drpd trus t'luka.tunggu la luka 2 sembuh.lg 1,t'luka krn kene tegur dgn jujur,lukanya x sedlm mana kalo nak compare dgn luka akibat hipokrit.paham x?kalo x paham,biar nad jelaskan.akak ingat mase nad sms tny psl akak dgn zam?mase 2 akak x kapel lg.akak kate,akak rase b'salah rapat dgn zam.takut nad t'luka.thanx krn memahami.tp seminggu pas 2,akak dah kapel dgn dia.mana lg sakit?kalo akak ckp je akak suke kat dia dr awal,kan senang.sbb nak jage ati nad konon.u make me hurt more.the 1 i trust,betray me.sampai skrg,luka 2 x sembuh.nak2 lg,asyik dgr akak dok manja2 dgn zam.mcm nad pnh dimanjakan 1 mase dulu.nad paham yg nad x kan b'sama zam lg.tp nad sgt2 t'kilan dgn cara akak.mmg stp org nak bhgia.tp cara akak cari bhgia akak...ntah la.nad hormat akak sbg kakak yg dah byk tolong nad.sbb 2 nad diam je.tp bila akak buat blog ni,nad t'grk ati nak komen.anyway,thanx 4 everything.
huh?
arent this post pasal syaiful amri ker? kecik ati syaiful amri... post yg dedicate utk dia, dh jadi utk org lain...ahahhaa..
miss nad dearie, she's talking bout our best fren, syaiful amri. he screwed up, tinggalkan kitorg, but we got reunited. dats all. no offense, but i think it's not bout u dear.
yaa....its bout me...
hello...
moshi2...
ya me cow cho wa...
=.="
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Aiyo..kurak-kurak,bahasa u terlalu dalam atau ada orng yg X faham bahasa..?? Sound like minta kesian only..pernah dimanjakn DULU??Long time ago lah,already pass lah..Ppl talking abt NOW,this moment..
Tadi ajak orng mkan sama,dia kata x lapar..tpi lps tu dia mkn mlm seorg2..sakit hati X?? Hypocrisy juga?? Hahahaha....X fhm kn...Time feel 1 2 couple than couple loh..the moment dun 1 2 couple not relationship lah...:-)
natang pa la yg ang type oii bb chang oi....
sienz la
diu...
hohohoho just kidiing =p