hmm...Suddenly I just feel like writing...(@ mumbling actually...hehe...)

In life, we often and always wanted to win...It doesn't matter what we're fighting for, as long as we win...When we can beat somebody in a race, we'll feel proud...When we can turn somebody down, we'll feel happy....When we can hurt somebody we don't like, we'll feel satisfied...

And for the loser, what's left for them...??

Does it feels great to be a winner...???

For me, the real winner is someone who can accept the fact that in life, we cannot get everything that we want...Sometimes, we have to compromise and give the chance to another beings to be on the top...A winner to me is someone who can accept the lost and doesn't let it stop him from achieving his target...A winner is someone who can admit his mistake and have the willing to correct what he's done wrong...

I also always want to win...And love being a winner...But there are certain times in life that I feel if I can just sacrifice my ego and let somebody thinks he @ she has won, I am the real winner...Why..??

Simple, it's just because I think the fight is not worth it...(hehe....like when you're fighting with a kid...)

The key is to let your enemy thinks that he @ she has turned you down or ripped off your ego...But the truth is it doesn't have any impacts to you or your life...Don't let the feelings of losing snatched away your confidence and focus...But you can turn it to something that I always called 'pembakar semangat'...The more a person wanted to hurt you, the stronger you'll get...Because you'll take all his @ her insults and acts as a challenge for you to move on...

While the person tries so hard to hurt you, he @ she doesn't realize that it just wasting their times and efforts... because you don't really care about them...What's important to you is to work hard to achieve you goals...your dreams...So, why wasting time on someone who always wasting his @ her times just to make you cry...??

So...let them be...If people really wanted to see you going down, that means you have something that they didn't have...
And that's what makes you special...